More Greetings..

Well well...
more greetings' coming... Lots of my friend's having their birthdays this months

Happy Birthday to:
Hendro a.k.a Buluk, Buluh, Garis, dll dsb ^_^ 13 May 2005 (lancar kerjaan kan?)
Aditya RK 15 May 2005 (dah, lama ga ketemu.. pengen ketemu)
Grace a.k.a Ayes 16 May 2005 (hehe.. mau pindah ke JKT lagi..)
Toman 17 May 2005 (Di hari ulang taun harus ngerjain take home test, hehe)
Ocky 17 May 2005 (blom ketemu online)

God bless your special day and hope you can bring out more good sides of you in this new age..

(Hari ini sedih deh.. ngga tau kenapa.. hiks..) --> tapi ga penting ^_^ Tadi ketemu lagu bagus.. eh, lagunya dah tau lama: There's A Hero by Billy Gilman. Tapi yg tadi ditemukan itu dinyanyikan oleh Tata AFI Jr feat. Rio Febrian.. Waa.. bagus (plok plok plok)

Not feeling well.. sniff..

Not feeling very well since Monday evening.. a bit dizzy and get fever..
Still the same the next morning. Ugh.. Hardly able to concentrate on what I was doing yesterday..

I texted K'Ira, telling her I couldn't be at Il Elefante practice that evening. I really thought I couldn't make it. Then after work, as I was heading to BCA ATM I saw Aries standing alone beside Borromeus Hospital. Having some papers on his hand and a pen on the other hand. At first I just 'lambai-lambai'-ed at him (^_^) from inside the 'angkot'. Haha.. kinda curious I stepped off the 'angkot' and approached him..

Hmm.. He's apparently having some kind of survey (helping his Planologi's friend on his Final Project actually). Wow!! It shocked me knowing that you had to stand there counting cars that are visiting Borromeus. From 09.00 WIB? And it's 17.30 WIB when we met?? What a patience... ^_^ Ahahaha.. Well, I shouldn't be amazed.. That's always your strong characteristic since I knew you.. Well, good luck with the effort.. and also for your own Final Project.

Got home after visiting BCA ATM and Kartika Sari (well, my appetite grows stronger everytime I'm not feeling well :p). Btw, I got an SMS from B'Josh asking if I wanted to join him and B'Rehold watching Kingdom of Heaven at Ciwalk.. Well, sadly I had to turned the tempting invitation down.
But suddenly as I was enjoying my dinner, there's a knock on the door. And some weird sounds similar to, "do.. Credo..". I said similar, actually it's just unidentified sound (I just do not know how to write it down ^_^).

Well, I thougt it's a call for my fellow kost-mate. But, heii.. It's B'Josh and B'Rehold! Gyahahaha.. oppss.. It appeared that they couldn't get the tickets they want. "Ughh, panjang bangeet antriannya" ceunah mereka (loh, kok ganti bahasa :p). Yeah yeah.. Sorry for them not watching the film they want, but happy for me having them to accompany me (kinda selfish huh?hehe..). Yeah, yeah.. At least, we got a lot of food and drink (FYI, Choco-Chip Chiffon cake from Kartika Sari was just perfect for us yest'day)

To end the day, they got home at 9 (wondering whether B'Josh still wanted to have rice for dinner ^_^ Batak bgt!!) and I slept peacefully (OK OK, that's exaggeration :p) till the next morning (which was this morning). And hell yeah, I felt a lot better.

NB: Hehe, Cely, krn ga ada delivery service, terpaksa aku menolak tawaran 2 cangkir coklat panasnya. HEYYY.. masa aku mampir ke daerah IP untuk itu ^_^ Hehe, Thanx anyway :p baik sekali..

Greetings.. greetings..

Happy Birthday 9 May 2005, Bang Atus.. semoga sehat dan sukses selalu.. hehe.. enjoy your birthday dong, masa cuma beli gorengan :)) God bless your special day..

Happy Birthday 10 May 2005, Liliest.. tetap baik, rajin, cantique, dan tetap semangat ngerjain TA-nya yaa.. ^_^

Huaaa... so long.. farewell to Firman.. yang akan bekerja di Malay.. tepatnya Johor Baru. Yah, ga sempat ketemu dulu sblom brangkat ke sana.. But, no problem.. masih ada Y!M, dan email, dan friendster, dll. Heahaha.. spt yg kamu bilang, baik2 ngurus dokumen2 perjalanannya ya.. biar ga disangka TKI ilegal, hyahaha.. Vote.. 4.. hug for u.

Congratulation to Andrew!! Selamat dah selesai sidangnya tgl 9 kmaren dan dapat A ^_^ Wow, very proud of you! Brarti tinggal tunggu wisuda.. nanti aku datang wisudamu ah di Unpad itu..
Kak Junita hari ini sidangnya.. semangat ya!! hehe, mgkn ga baca posting ini.. Tapi tadi dah di-sms kok..

Siapa lagi ya? hmm.. oh iya.. Riest, untung dah bisa diakses Flash Disk nya ya.. hehe, bisa lanjut TAnya lagi dong ^_^

Pokoknya untuk semua teman-temanku.. enjoy every time you have because it's a bless God give us..

Beban yang kita tanggung..

I got this nice post in my MailBox and in my shared bulletin board on www.friendster.com.

Remind me on how I usually take a break during some hard times, doing what I like.. It merely happened by instinct I guess.
This illustration does explain why that happened.. Sometimes I am also trapped in the melancholic thought of finishing the 'big problem' all the way without getting interupted. It is good though, but it's also tiring me up..
Well, I guess I'll have to remind myself not to push myself too hard on 'carrying my load'.. Of course I also have to remind myself not to lose my focus. Well, that's a challenge ^_^

Tapi pastinya, selain mencari cara 'istirahat' sendiri, kita perlu menyerahkan beban itu kepada yang lebih berkuasa.. Ya, benar. Admitting that we're not able to carry such load without the help of God will certainly release some stress we got. Seperti firman yang tertulis, "Datanglah kepada-Ku semua yang letih lesu dan berbeban berat, dan Aku akan memberi kelegaan kepadamu"
Ayat yang menenangkan..

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Bukan BERAT beban yang membuat kita stress,
tetapi LAMA-nya kita memikul beban tersebut.
(Stephen Covey)


Pada saat memberikan kuliah tentang Manajemen Stress,
Stephen Covey mengangkat segelas air dan bertanya
kepada para siswanya: "Menurut anda, kira-kira
seberapa beratnya segelas air ini?"

Para siswa menjawab mulai dari 200 gr sampai 500 gr.
"Ini bukanlah masalah berat absolutnya, tapi
tergantung berapa lama anda memegangnya." kata Covey.

"Jika saya memegangnya selama 1 menit, tidak ada
masalah. Jika saya memegangnya selama 1 jam, lengan
kanan saya akan sakit. Dan jika saya memegangnya
selama 1 hari penuh, mungkin anda harus memanggilkan
ambulans untuk saya. Beratnya sebenarnya sama, tapi
semakin lama saya memegangnya, maka bebannya akan
semakin berat."

"Jika kita membawa beban kita terus menerus, lambat
laun kita tidak akan mampu membawanya lagi. Beban itu
akan meningkat beratnya." lanjut Covey.
"Apa yang harus kita lakukan adalah meletakkan gelas
tersebut, istirahat sejenak sebelum mengangkatnya
lagi". Kita harus meninggalkan beban kita secara
periodik, agar kita dapat lebih segar dan mampu
membawanya lagi.

Jadi sebelum pulang ke rumah dari pekerjaan sore ini,
tinggalkan beban pekerjaan. Jangan bawa pulang. Beban
itu dapat diambil lagi besok. Apapun beban yang ada
dipundak anda hari ini, coba tinggalkan sejenak jika
bisa. Setelah beristirahat nanti dapat diambil lagi.

Hidup ini singkat, jadi cobalah menikmatinya dan
memanfaatkannya ...! Hal terindah dan terbaik di
dunia ini tak dapat dilihat, atau disentuh, tapi
dapat dirasakan jauh di relung hati kita.
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My Comments:
"segar, menarik, humoris dan praktis" --> gw sering juga kucel, menyebalkan, garink, dan pemikir.
Selingkuh?? kyaknya ngga deh.. gw bukan pe-selingkuh kok.. anak baik2 gini kok ^_^